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You Think You're an Active Listener, But Are You?
Girvin
April 15, 2024
Hey – Girvin here!
This week, let's shed light on the essence of active listening and debunk five common myths costing you respect and influence.
Let’s get it!
"The most basic of all human needs is the need to understand and be understood. The best way to understand people is to listen to them."
If you have received any training in communications or leadership you have heard the term active listening. And, I would bet that you know exactly how important it is.
You know when mastered, active listening can transform relationships, enhance communication, and promote understanding.
“Active listening is more than just a skill; it's an art form!”
Despite its importance, many people get active listening wrong. Let's clear up five big myths and really understand what active listening is all about.
CONSIDER THIS
Active Listening is not Silence
One of the biggest misconceptions about active listening is that it's synonymous with silence.
Many believe that simply not speaking qualifies as active listening. However, true active listening is an engaged and dynamic process. It involves not only hearing the words being said but also understanding the emotions and intentions behind them.
It's about making the speaker feel seen and understood, not just heard.
[😋And remember, if you think listening is hard, try doing it with your mouth open – it’s not a sound strategy!]
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If you make listening and observation your occupation, you will gain much more than you can by talk.
